Katie Price

I believe it was Katie Price who had an epiphany early on, as a young woman. She realized that guys are always going to view her as a sexual object, whether she wants it or not. She can’t get away from how she looks. She can’t help how her beauty makes men desire her. That’s just the way life is, and she has to find some way to cope with it.

Being sexually objectified early on meant she was facing a lifetime of men wanting to use her for sex. Needless to say, she was not going to have sex with every man who wanted it from her. Although that didn’t stop her from being in the eye of a hurricane of sexual energy. What is a woman to do?

She came to the conclusion that if men are going to use her for sex, then she’s going to use them for money. Living by that philosophy, she went on to be nude model, career paths opened up for her, and she became a millionaire quite quickly. There’s an art to it. Katie perfected it, and cashed in.

 

Madonna

Madonna is another example of a woman using what she has to get what she wants.

Back in the day, I wouldn’t have called any of Madonna’s songs great. Some were good. Many were forgettable. But there was something she did in her music videos that made people transfixed. Guys would watch her videos, whether they liked her songs or not, mesmerized by sensuality that seemed to be directed solely at them alone. Women adored Madonna and wanted to express themselves as openly as she did.

[Madonna] would perform cartwheels and handstands in the hallways between classes, dangle by her knees from the monkey bars during recess, and pull up her skirt during class—all so that the boys could see her underwear.

When Madonna filmed her music videos, she used skills she’d long-since perfected way back in school. It began as seemingly silly things, which guys seemed to not only take seriously, but rather easily became mesmerized by. And this was true even to the point of them ignoring other girls, some of whom Madonna would consider to be more attractive. But while other girls would typically shy away from such attention, Madonna was eager to explore it. “How will they react if I do this? How about that?”

She came to realize and utilize the power of her sexuality. Fast forward to her rise of fame. People watched her music videos over and over, until they loved and paid good money for her mediocre songs.

 

Marilyn Monroe

Marilyn Monroe is loved and admired even to this day by young women who want to be like her. And certainly admired by guys as well.

She was first discovered by a photographer, and had some success as a model for various forgettable magazines. The pay was barely enough to live on, but it did open up career paths for her to act in bit parts for some lackluster 20th Century Fox films. Soon, those roles dried up and she was released from her contract. It seemed Marilyn’s fifteen minutes of fame had come and gone.

However, Marilyn still had her stellar beauty to fall back on, and continued to do modelling. This continued to open doors of opportunity which led to a contract with Columbia Pictures. And even though she was a pretty face who photographed well and looked good on film, the movie she made with Columbia flopped and she again found herself struggling to find work. Though she wanted to work in movies, she could always fall back on modelling when times were hard. Modelling pay at the time wasn’t lucrative, but it helped pay the bills.

It wasn’t until she met photographer Tom Kelley that she made the decision to pose nude. He was offering her the equivalent of $500 in today’s money. She didn’t want to do nude photos, but her rent was due and she needed the money. After that, her career in film took off. And needless to say, the rest is history. And there’s not one of you, male or female, who sees the photo of Marilyn to the left without being full of admiration. If it hadn’t been for these photos, her true beauty would have been forever unknown, unappreciated. And she would have faded into her later years, unnoticed and forgotten.

 

Elizabeth Taylor

Elizabeth Taylor has been called the most famous film star in the world. Her classic beauty, and eyes so blue they appeared violet, stunned those who met her in person. Plus, she was born with thick, double eyelashes due to a genetic mutation. This made it appear as though she was always wearing heavy mascara. They accentuated her gorgeous eyes. As a budding child actress, her biographer Alexander Walker pointed out, “Her eyes are too old, she doesn’t have the face of a child.”

When she started out as a young actress, movie studio executives fought over who got to sign her up first after seeing her in person. As if her beauty wasn’t enough, she shined onscreen as an actress. She had great natural talent and she seemed to take to the camera like a seasoned professional. She went on to win two Academy Awards for Best Actress.

As an adult, her on-screen sensuality captivated audiences as well as her leading men. And any guy who had the fortune of meeting her.

She used her beauty not only to great success in scores of famous films, but also to become romantically involved in a great number of enormously wealthy men. By the time of hear death in 2011, after seven marriages and a decades-long career in the movie industry, the value of her jewelry alone was worth $150 million.

 

You

And now we come to you. Like Katie Price, maybe you feel you’re in the eye of a hurricane of unwanted sexual energy. For every guy you want to be with, there’s countless other guys you’re not interested in that want to hook up with you. You don’t want to be with every guy that wants to be with you. But that doesn’t seem to stop them. You find yourself having to put up a front of being rude and bitchy to make yourself unapproachable, just to get them to back off. However, its sad to have to be this way, because that isn’t who you are. You’re a friendly, loving person who doesn’t want to be mean to anybody. But you find this is the way you have to be in order to keep all that unwanted sexual energy at bay.

Maybe many of these unwanted guys have fooled themselves into thinking they “love” you, because of your pretty face, or your big boobs, or your sexy body. But you know what true love is, and you know that physical lust has nothing to do with it. Your intuition tells you that if you were to give in to the advances of these unwanted guys, that most, if not all, would simply use you for sex until they’ve had their fill, and be done with you. That’s not any kind of relationship you want.

Maybe some guys have made it through your defenses in your past. They convinced you that you were truly loved. And you were left heartbroken at how quick they were to leave, or cheat, as soon as you gave them what they wanted. Its hard not to become a little bitter and jaded after having been through the same situation again and again. Why can’t you learn? What’s worse is if you’re in a position where you’re depending on a guy like this just to survive, to have food and a place to live. You’re pretty much trapped into a lifetime of subservience.

There’s things you want out of life. And there’s things you need in life to survive. Things you want will come in time. But until then, you need to survive somehow. And maybe slaving away at a thankless, low-paying job while struggling from paycheck to paycheck isn’t for you. Maybe instead, you can use what you have, to get what you want. Preferably in a situation where unwanted guys cannot touch you. Ideally in a situation where you don’t even have to be in their presence.

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